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Thursday, August 31, 2006

Is Orthodoxy becoming too religiously right-wing?

In this final part of our series on the move to the religious right in Toronto’s Orthodox community, we hear from other centrist voices about what they see as the growing influence of haredi religious leaders and practices in the rest of the Orthodox community. Much of their concern centres on the prominence of Kollel Avreichim on Coldstream Avenue, located in the heart of the haredi community near Bathurst Street and Lawrence Avenue. As the leading haredi post-yeshiva educational institution in Toronto, its rulings have come to exert significant influence in the wider Orthodox community. (Rabbi Shlomo Miller, its rosh kollel and av beis din – head of the institution and its rabbinical court – declined to speak directly to The CJN, saying that the media have misquoted and misunderstood him. However, he authorized a spokesperson to speak on his behalf.)

Many people in the Orthodox community are troubled by what appears to be a refusal of non-haredi rabbis and other Orthodox leaders to speak out against the current situation. Several people interviewed for this series expressed the view that many Orthodox rabbis and leaders are afraid of being censured by Rabbi Miller and the haredi community, and these sources contend this fear is behind the silence of Orthodox leaders. It is this context – and our belief that issues that generate such vehemence should be discussed openly – that has led The CJN to investigate the situation.
From left: Rabbi Reuven Tradburks, Rabbi Immanuel Schochet and Martin Lockshin

Rabbi Reuven Tradburks, secretary of Toronto’s Vaad Harabonim and spiritual leader of Kehillat Shaarei Torah, a Modern Orthodox congregation, paints a more positive picture than some others of the move toward more stringent religious practices and views in the Orthodox community.

“I feel that, often when there are dramatic changes in policy, people look at it as being a step backward, or as the Orthodox world becoming more fundamentalist. I don’t view it that way. I view it as a positive change, that the number of people who want to live a rich and full life completely consistent with what the Torah wants from us is growing.”

He said he does not see the discrepancies between Modern Orthodox and haredi philosophy as a division between the two groups.

“I think there are different approaches. It’s not a new issue. It’s a new manifestation. Part of the reason [the issue seems more pronounced] is because of e-mail, the Internet and instantaneous communication. And to some extent it’s also the ascendancy of Torah and knowledgeable Jews in the Orthodox world in general.”

However, he noted, there are Orthodox Jews “grappling to find a way of negotiating their allegiance to science and also their allegiance to Torah and Torah leaders.”

Rabbi Tradburks was referring to the debate about British-born, Israel-based Rabbi Natan Slifkin, a haredi scholar who touched off an ongoing controversy in the Orthodox world with his views on creation and science.

Three of his books – including Mysterious Creatures and The Camel, the Hare and the Hyrax, which offer ideas about the origins of the universe that are anathema to his fellow haredim – were banned by Israeli and North American haredi rabbis in early 2005. Especially troubling to them are Rabbi Slifkin’s assertions in The Science of Torah that the world was created not in six days, but over millions of years.

The young rabbi’s profile remained relatively low in Toronto until his visit to the city this past winter to speak at an event sponsored by Torah in Motion, a Modern Orthodox educational organization that hosts lectures and programs.

At that time, Rabbi Shlomo Miller of Kollel Avreichim issued “a letter of admonishment” stating that Rabbi Slifkin’s opinions on the six days of creation were “definitely heretical,” even “boorish.”

A book ban, such as the one imposed on Rabbi Slifkin, is “not something I would do, but I understand the rationale as to why that’s being done, even if I don’t agree with it,” said Rabbi Tradburks, whose synagogue also hosted Rabbi Slifkin as a speaker when he was in Toronto.

* * *

Jonathan Ostroff, a computer science professor at York University who was authorized by Rabbi Miller to speak on his behalf, said that Rabbi Miller had no connection with the original ban on Rabbi Slifkin’s books and that he only issued his own condemnation of his work after he was asked for his opinion on the subject by members of his own community. The letter was intended only for his followers, and not for the general community, Ostroff said.

He also told The CJN that Rabbi Miller distinguishes between “operational science” and “origin science.” Operational science, which Rabbi Miller accepts, examines how things work in the universe, while origin science looks at what caused things to begin.

Ostroff stressed that there is a difference between disagreeing with someone, and hating or looking down on them. “We object to his views, not to him as a person,” Ostroff said. In fact, he said, when Rabbi Slifkin came to Toronto to speak at the Torah in Motion event, he was invited to speak to Rabbi Miller and Ostroff, but was “unresponsive.”

“We would still be willing to talk to him anytime,” Ostroff said.

He added that, for a time, he was involved in dialogue with Rabbi Slifkin, both via the Internet and other means. “I wanted to continue the dialogue, but he cut it off. I don’t believe he wants to discuss substantive issues.”

When contacted by The CJN, Rabbi Slifkin said he had been advised by two Canadian rabbis against meeting with Rabbi Miller, because the rabbis felt the purpose of the meeting would be to try to change his views and not to have an open discussion of the issues.

Rabbi Slifkin added that he stopped his online communication with Ostroff “when the pressures of the ban began.” He said that at that time, his posts on an online discussion group were being passed on “to non-participants in order to stir up opposition to me. I have absolutely no idea what Dr. Ostroff means when he says that I don’t want to discuss substantive issues. I have done nothing else for the last few years!”

* * *

What makes the Slifkin affair unique, according to Yossi Adler, a Toronto lawyer who wrote about the controversy in a CJN column in January, is that in similar past cases, other people have retracted the material that was deemed offensive, “and everything [was] fine and dandy.”

Not only did Rabbi Slifkin not retract his assertions, Adler said, but rabbis who condemned his work went beyond banning his books to condemn him personally.

“It’s censorship,” said Adler, who fears that if someone like Rabbi Slifkin, who is part of the haredi community, can be singled out, then everyone is “potentially a target.”

To a lesser extent, Adler was singled out for his CJN column by some Orthodox Jews who criticized him for airing the issue in public. “They don’t understand that this is a significant issue that merits discussion and analysis,” he said, adding that the response he received to his column was overwhelmingly – perhaps 95 per cent – positive.

The naysayers are “creating an environment where debate is non-existent or only discussed behind closed doors, and that’s regrettable,” said Adler.

He also noted that some haredi Jews feel he and others are “right-wing bashing” out of enjoyment, an accusation he denies. “We came from that world. We feel an affinity to that world, and we care about its direction.”

The bans are increasing in number and seriousness, says Adler, who was raised in the “yeshiva world” but has moved toward what he terms “centrist” Orthodoxy. “I prefer the more centrist [community],” he said. “They’re less likely to build walls and to exclude what modernity has to offer. They’re more interested in secular education, and more Zionistic.

“As each group has become more confident, they feel they can live independently. I feel a significant disrespect [on the part of the haredi community toward] non-Orthodox and less Orthodox Jews.”

A lot of the haredi “suspicion” toward the outside world stems from a perceived breakdown of morality, as exemplified by societal changes that include same-sex marriage and sexual promiscuity, Adler explained.

“They will exclude media from their households. A lot of stuff in the media today is very trashy. At the same time, I think they’re throwing out the baby with the bathwater.

“It was probably like that before,” he admitted, “but not to the same extent, and they weren’t as bold in the way they impose certain rules in the community.”

Rabbi Miller “has a brilliant mind and is well versed in the sources,” said Adler. “No one’s willing to stand up and say that [what he is saying] is not acceptable, or that this is a stringency going beyond what the community requires.”

Adler said that, as a result, “there are people who have considered walking away from Orthodoxy.”

* * *

Not all rabbis were as forthcoming as Rabbi Tradburks when asked to be interviewed for this article. One said he didn’t even want to be quoted as saying that he declined to comment.

When asked repeatedly about the issue of possible repercussions for people who might challenge the growing influence of haredi religious leaders and practices, Ostroff’s only comments had to do with the reaction that Rabbi Miller has received for publicly expressing his own views.

“He has had repercussions for defending Torah Judaism. Should not a Torah teacher stand up for Torah? That’s what he did. Should he allow people to wallow in ignorance?”

Ostroff added that Rabbi Miller expected that he would face consequences for speaking out, just as anybody who comments publicly on any issue would. “But you have to protect your children, and you have to protect the truth of Torah.”

* * *

Martin Lockshin, a York University professor who is an ordained Orthodox rabbi, remains sanguine about the current environment in the Orthodox world.

The former director of York’s Centre for Jewish Studies says he still feels at home in most places in the Orthodox community and is heartened by the presence of Modern Orthodox institutions in the city, citing the examples of Netivot HaTorah Day School, and Bnei Akiva’s Ulpanat Orot and Or Chaim high schools.

“I see something like Torah In Motion, which tries to do intellectual types of things, as a positive force in the city,” he said.

“I know there are people I see as kindred spirits who I can talk to, who unabashedly call themselves Modern Orthodox.”

However, he noted, “it may be a well-placed concern that congregational rabbis find themselves in the difficult position – the modern centrist liberal kinds – worried about losing their bona fides because of a possible attack from the ultra-Orthodox.”

At his own synagogue, Congregation Bnai Torah, which has a more right-wing philosophy than his own, the rabbi “has been very tolerant of me,” Lockshin said.

* * *

Rabbi Immanuel Schochet, a retired philosophy professor at Humber College and a leader of the Lubavitch movement in Toronto, said the Jewish community has been inundated with dissent and anger, as well as stringencies that go beyond halachah in an attempt to protect tradition.

“We live in a society where under the guise of political correctness, all systems are go. Moral boundaries which were observed by everyone are being trampled,” he said by way of explanation. In today’s “permissive, licentious society,” observant Jews try to take precautions, he added.

Like immunizations, “we may inject kids with poisons to protect them” – in other words, expose them to the non-Jewish world so that they are equipped to deal with it. Or, he added, observant Jews may try to defend tradition by creating more closed enclaves and putting up behavioural fences such as not allowing television or Internet in the home, in an effort to circle the wagons around the community’s children. “It’s not foolproof, but it’s an attempt to protect kids and the young from being corrupted.”

The ideal, he said, is “the golden middle path,” though he admits this path is hard to find.

Rabbi Schochet added that there is “great hostility” within the Orthodox community, which he said comes from divisions that are more about ego than personal ideology.

There is a fight over “my gedolim [rabbinic sages] vs. your gedolim – my way or the highway,” he said, adding that this is not what the pursuit of Torah means. “You have to realize that you aren’t God’s policeman.”

There is nothing wrong with having a difference of opinion, so long as the discussion is kept to the issue and avoids the personal, he said. You condemn the act or action, not the person doing it, he added.

For instance, different schools serve different parts of the Orthodox world, but they should still be conscious of the bonds between them. “I may not send my children to schools whose views I disagree with. But show hostility to them? No.”

Rabbi Schochet said he disagrees with the approach of those who banned Rabbi Slifkin’s book.

“The answer is not to ban a book – that just gives publicity, and popularizes it, the opposite of what is intended. The answer is to discuss, and to question, to say why you think he is wrong.”

You don’t argue with a Jewish heretic, said Rabbi Schochet, speaking hypothetically, and “banning went out with the dodo.” The rabbis who banned Rabbi Slifkin’s books have “moved beyond what society needs. They shot themselves in the foot.”

“Not that I necessarily disagree with their views, just their methods.”

As to whether the Orthodox community will ever be united in the future, Rabbi Schochet said he “won’t place any bets on it. But then, that’s one good reason to hope for the coming of Moshiach.”

Monday, August 28, 2006

Frum Weddings Rock!

A music video of a friend's wedding. - Not my friend! This is a video clip someone posted on Google Video of a Jewish Orthodox Wedding. Well,the Men's side of the dancing at least.



Monday, August 21, 2006

Marco Tempest Aquarium Magic

バーチャルマジック2006 - Marco Tempest Aquarium Magic

more magic

Sunday, August 20, 2006

Search Swicki

I added a search feature at the bottom of this blog.

Please try it out and let me know what you think.

It's a "learning" and "trainable" search engine.

Compare to Google.

Thursday, August 17, 2006

chat frum / yidchat.com = 10,000 hits! yay!

Wow 10,000 hits! Yay!

Frum chat, www.yidchat.com is where it's at!

Wednesday, August 16, 2006

Help Save Google!

Google needs your help.

http://googleblog.blogspot.com/2006/08/thanks-for-checking-out-google.html

They are resorting to selling T-shirts to keep the doors open.

yidden chat!

http://yidchat.com


Where are you frum?

Tuesday, August 15, 2006

Satmar Squabble Rages On

By GIMPEL the SHISTER, HasidicNews.com Writer

WILLIAMSBURG (HN) - The squabbling between the two Satmar Newspapers "Der Yid" and "Das Blat" rages on.

Originally "Der Yid" was the only Satmar newspaper. When the Satmar Congregation split into the Zalmen and Aaron teams, Der Yid ended up as expected in the hands of Zalmen. Aaron's people launched "Das blat as a way of asserting their independence and counter the pro-Zalmen Der Yid.

One of the ironic outcomes of this inner squabbling is the shedding of some traditional no-no's like pictures. Der Yid never used to show any pictures. Das Blat in an attempt to attract readers and perhaps convert them to their cause, started showing pictures. Der Yid quickly followed suit.

One notable prevailing attitude is for one paper not to discuss any news occurring in its opponents team. This is somewhat odd, but quite common in the Satmar world. Ever since Satmar started fighting Belz about 15 years ago, Satmar official media never mentioned anything about Belz, including The Belze Rebbe's highly-publicized visit to the US about seven years ago.

Monday, August 14, 2006

Jewish Chat Portal - New Website

The new website serves as a Chat Portal or "chortle" ;)

Please bookmark http://www.yidchat.com

Comments and suggestions are welcome.

Come, share, chat!

Please link freely!

If have a link of interest to share please let me know.

Your resource for Jewish Chat!

Sunday, August 13, 2006

Tuesday, August 08, 2006

CHAT TRANSCRIPT - TALMUD

Talmud
Dr. Joel Roth · February 24, 1998

JOEL ROTH:
Hello everyone. My name is Joel Roth. I am a Professor of Talmud at the Jewish Theological Seminary.

About a year ago I agreed to experiment with a course in Talmud on the Internet, and never have had such an exciting educational experience. In our first year we had about six TA's and me working out a course with about 50 students from all over the country. It was really an experience tailoring the study of Talmud to this medium.

In the long run, I think we did a good job. What we ended up doing was focusing on small selections of Talmud which featured structures of argument. I don't know whether those in the Chat room have an idea of what I am talking about. The Talmud uses some set patterns of questioning in order to clarify and explain, and we focused on those. It worked pretty well.

This year we are doing it again with a variety of groups from all over the country. It is amazing. For a guy who started this process as almost a computer illiterate, I never cease to be amazed.

Anyhow, I don't think you need to hear from me endlessly. Just know that I believe that the study of Talmud is the key to the Jewish soul. That is why it is studied, and that is why it ought to be studied.

Now, I am ready for your questions or comments. Thanks for listening. You don't necessarily have to stick to my introductory remarks.

JOSHUA HELLER (MODERATOR):
This is Joshua Heller

I'll be moderating- when you folks post your questions, I'll pass them along to Rabbi Roth. (he can't neccesarily see everything typed in this window if people type a lot while he's also typing) Anyone have any thoughts? Maxine- I know that you are in one of the adult ed sections.

AIMEE LINGMAN IN CANADA:
Hi again Joel. I'm not Jewish, so I hope you don't mind if I ask some fairly basic questions.....

JACOB IN MADISON, WI:
Why was the decision made to teach Talmud online--between the relative obscurity of the text and the language challenges, I would have thought that literature would be an easier project for online education.

MAXINE COHEN LANDO IN MIAMI:
I am looking forward to making some connections to today's laws and mores, and perhaps looking for some keys to our own continuity as Jews as well as the universal wisdom I hope to find for society as a whole. Somehow we have been sustained as a people by our love of Torah and Talmud.

JOEL ROTH:
Literature might be easier, but not more important. We tried to figure out a way to make it comprehensible even in this medium, Jacob.

AIMEE LINGMAN IN CANADA:
Ok. Let's totally put my ignorance on display with one wild blow. What who/is Talmud?

JOEL ROTH:
Aimee, don't feel bad about asking fundamental questions.
Talmud, basically, is a long commentary on the Torah, written over a span of about 700 years. It is divided into two parts. The Mishnah, 63 small volumes, topically organized, written and edited in about 200 of the Common Era. And the Gemara, which is an expansive commentary and discussion of the Mishnah. Together these constitute the Talmud. When we speak of "The Rabbis," we generally mean the sages of this literature. To say a commentary on the Torah is a bit of an oversimplification, but not entirely false. They lived in Israel and in Babylonia, beginning about 200 Before the common Era, until about 500 After the Common Era.

AIMEE LINGMAN IN CANADA:
Who is responsible for the writing of the Talmud?

JOEL ROTH:
A word to Maxine, if she is still there.

MAXINE COHEN LANDO IN MIAMI:
Rabbi, Is there a different religious significance to Talmud--that is, do Jews consider it having a divine inspiratioon or is it a human interpretation of Torah?

JOEL ROTH:
Maxine, the Talmud remains the basic text of Jewish law to this day. All legalists look to it as the ultimate authority. But, it takes some time to learn how to use it correctly.

Whether to consider the Talmud directly Divine depends on one's theological perspective.

AIMEE LINGMAN IN CANADA:
So today's legal system is based on the Talmud?

JOEL ROTH:
Some Orthodox rabbis would make that claim, but most Conservative rabbis would recognize it as human.

Aimee, yes, today's Jewish legal system is still based on the Talmud. Of course, a lot has happened since the Talmud, and the system has not stood still, but still we are based on it. It is sort of like saying that the American system is still based on the Constitution even though you couldn't just read the Constitution itself. Is this at all clear?

MARTIN KAMINER IN NEW YORK:
I might add that the centrality of Talmud to Judaism cannot be overstated, that it is the sole focus of traditional Jewish education beyond a young age, occluding even Bible study. Is this right? Meaning 'accurate', not 'justified'

MAXINE COHEN LANDO IN MIAMI:
I have heard and read many sayings and stories form Talmud as well, things that are not purely law.

JOEL ROTH:
There is no question that classical Jewish education was heavily weighted to Talmud. Kids studied Talmud forever. Bible was not so often studied separately from it.

Joshua Heller in New York
I asked Rabbi Roth what he meant by that..

JOEL ROTH:
Maxine is, of course, correct. The Talmud is much more than purely law. Remember I said that the Gemara is expansive. Part of that entails wide-reaching discussion of things that are not strictly legal at all. All of the stuff is there because the encounter with the Divine takes forms beyond the law, too.

MAXINE COHEN LANDO IN MIAMI:
I look forward to our course. I've got to put my kids to bed. Goodnight.

JOEL ROTH:
Nice to meet you.

Back to an earlier comment of Josh's. It seems that in the Middle Ages they studied Bible in addition to Talmud. The yeshivot of Europe put much less emphasis on Bible.

Aimee and Jacob, have you got anything else to ask or comment on? Don't be bashful!

JOSHUA HELLER IN NEW YORK:
Are there any more questions?

MARTIN KAMINER IN NEW YORK:
I never understood how Torah could be replaced as the primary text and object of study. What is the justification for this?

JOEL ROTH:
Jacob, have you ever tried to study Talmud?

Josh, since Torah means what the Sages of Israel say it means, which should be studied more, the Torah or the Sages?

JOSHUA HELLER IN NEW YORK:
Good question

JOEL ROTH:
How many study the Constitution today, as opposed to studying the Constitution as understood by the courts?

JACOB IN MADISON, WI:
Rabbi Roth--I studied it a while ago, but didn't really like it (too much obfuscation). I am, however, interested in new net initiatives, like learning, which is why I stopped by.

MARTIN KAMINER IN NEW YORK:
But the decisions of the courts can only be understood by lawyers. It's much easier for me to read the Mishna than the more circumlocutious commentaries as a lay person.

JOSHUA HELLER IN NEW YORK:
Let me suggest that we wrap up

Aimee- are you still out there?

MARTIN KAMINER IN NEW YORK:
OK, Rabbi Roth, how would you advise an interested lay person today to consider the place of Talmud?

JOSHUA HELLER IN NEW YORK:
Martin, I think you are "last question" unless Aimee has anything else.

JOEL ROTH:
Martin, the Talmud is still the soul of the Jew. It sometimes takes a little time, however, to appreciate it. That's why we're teaching this course. It is a first step.

MARTIN KAMINER IN NEW YORK:
Thank you Rabbi, and goodnight.

JACOB IN MADISON, WI:
'night, all.

JOEL ROTH:
I am convinced, however, that it has to be done through the text of the Talmud itself, not just talking about what the Talmud says.

JOSHUA HELLER IN NEW YORK:
Thanks everyone for participating.

The Seminary's distance learning project is sponsored by the Kaminer Family Foundation. If you'd like to learn more about Rabbi Roth's online course, or other courses, point your browser to http://www.jtsa.edu/ Goodnight everyone.

Islamic missionaries in Jewish Chat Rooms!

Guest Name Yousef Al-Khattab
Subject A Former Jewish Settler's Journey to Islam
Date Tuesday,Jul 15 ,2003
Time Makkah
From... 18:30...To... 21:00
GMT
From... 15:30...To...18:00

Name
Host -
Profession
Answer Dear viewers,

The session has just started. You are invited to join us with your questions.

Yours,
Islamonline Live Dialogue Editing Desk

Name
Samir -
Profession
Question
Assalaam Aleikum brother.

May Allah use you for the service of His Deen. My question you have probably been asked many times in the past, however people want to know: Have you experienced opposition to your Islam from your parents?

Answer
Wa `Alaykum Assalam Wa Rahmatu Allahi Wa Barakatuh

In the name of Allah...

Yes, I no longer have contact with my family. We are not permitted to break family ties, but my family sided with the Jews and with the Jewish entity, and because of this we had no choice but to break contact at this time. The last thing that they told me was that I was barbaric.


Name
Abdisamad - United Kingdom
Profession Counsellor
Question
Assalaamu Alaikum,

As the case of yourself being a Jew living in Israel/Palestine and may be having Jewish relatives, how can you help non muslims particularly American and Europian Jews to understand that Islam is for ALL and no need for hating and killing for the sake of religion?

Answer
First of all, in terms of the best way to call to Islam, there is only one Manhaj, and that is the Manhaj of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and the three generations that followed (Companions and followers - Allah be well pleased with them). We must also use the 'ulama of all generations without innovating and making a new style of da`wa. The best way to prove Islam is for eveyone is to quote the Qur'an, and the only difference between us is Taqwa (God fearingness).

Also, the Prophet (pbuh) said that when finding a wife, one should take from far a way. So, Islam is not based on racism, and our evidence is the strongest evidence: God's Word and that of His Messanger (pbuh). We don't fight for hate of the kuffar. We fight for the sake of Allah alone, to stop those who try to kill us, those who occupy our land, and those who spread Munkar (evil), and those who teach foreign political ideology in our land, such as democracy, etc.


Name
Abdur Raheem -
Profession
Question
Assalamu alaikum.

What are the main differences in practising Judaism and Islam?

Answer
The main differences is Tawheed itself. The Jews believe in intercession, that they pray to the rabbi to interceed for them, or on the soul or the merit of the rabbi. Another important point is (and there are many) that Islam is a religion not based on men, whereas Judaism is a religion based on men. We have the Qur'an and the Sunnah.

If my sheikh cut his beard tomorrow, and he puts on a Jewish cap, and says, I am wrong and Jews are right, that does not affect me. My belief is based on a set law with the promise from Allah (swt) that it will never be changed. And in every masjid all over the world, the Qur'an you hear is the same Qur'an.

Jewdism on the other hand is based on "oral tradition" (i.e. the Talmud). One must ask: Why is the oral tradition in writing today? By the rabbis own admition, things have been forgotten. The Torah of today has eleven different letters. And the script is not the original text. And Alhamdullilah, Allah has blessed us with an easy religeon where many people are Hafiz (memorizers) of the Qur'an in every generation. Allah has blessed us with that.


Name
Muzammil - Malaysia
Profession
Question
Assalamu'alaikum,

Can you tell us how do you came to know about Islam and finally took the shahadah?

Answer
I met somebody, a brother, from the UAE, who took the time to go to a Jewish chat room and preach Islamic monotheism (Tawhid). We had a conversation that lasted about two years, until I read the Quran and could not resist Islam.

Truly, that is what I belive Judaism was supposed to be. If you go to the website: www.jewstoislam.com you can listen to the whole story.


Name
Noorani - Canada
Profession Project Management
Question
Assalaamu Alaikum Brother Yousef,

Welcome to the universal religion!

What does orthodox Judaism mean and contain?

Was-Salaam.

Answer
Judaism should really be called Rabbism. And it is based on God being racist, imperfect, and it is based on everything found in business dealings. Oh God, please don't forget your covenant, and give me this and this. Judaism originally is an Eastern religion, and when the Jews moved away from the Middle East, they lost most of their eastern ideas. That is except one concept: tribalism. And this in turn turned into racism.

Their faith is not based on the Torah, it is based on the Talmud, which as many Jews say, when you do Dawa to them, that the Sunnah is like the Talmud. This could not be more untrue, because authentic Sunnah never contradicts the Qur'an. Whereas the Talmud is the polar opposite of the Torah in its already corrupted form of today. You can see my web site and get more information about this.


Name
ramzi - Palestine
Profession barhum
Question
Asslaam aleikum wa rahmatu Allahi wa barakatu

Brother what’s the best way for da'wa with Jews in these days? How do you see the concept of jihad today? And what is your advice for the Palestinians and the Muslims in this hard time?

Thank you and jazak Allahu kheir.


Answer
The best way of doing da'wa to the Jews is to make dialogue with them. They claim we have 1.5 billion Muslims, then why are not we Muslims in every Jewish forum posting questions, and asking about Tawhid? Why are not we Muslims in every Jewish chat room looking for those interested in Truth (Haq)?

And there are many ways, recently somebody, Palestinian Muslim has been sending instant messages via the IP numbers in all Jewish areas. May Allah reward him for this. Especially here in Falastin, in this Intifada, most of us have ample time to sit and think and be original, and effective in Da'wa. Our goal inshallah is to get to every Jewish house the message of Islam. We are presently working on translating the Quran into Hebrew, and the Jewstoislam website, will be published in Hebrew, due to the efforts of a Palestinian Muslim brother, inshallah.

As for Jihad, and I speak from the point of a Muslim in Palestine, we must fight them until they leave. In Islam Da'wa comes before Jihad. Now there is Da'wa site for Jews, Alhamdullilah. Now there are Palestinian Muslims living among the Jews, and preaching them. So there is no excuse why we should stop our resistance from Jewish occupation. So we must be firm, and we must put the cards on the table. This is what we have to offer. We invite you to live with us as brothers and sisters in Islam. If they refuse we invite them to live in peace with us under Islamic rule, as the Jews and Christian lived before the Jewish entity existed. And if they refuse this we must fight them till East meets West. And also it is important for them to understand that there are not "Israeli civilians". Thats based on my small knowledge of Shari'a, and Allah knows best.

To think the way the Prophet (pbuh) what he would he do in his hard time. By no means does this mean being soft on the Jews here, in the occupied Palestine 1948 and 1967. We must work on ourselves, our families, and our close friends, and we must make Dua'a for our rulers (Hukkam) to impliment Islam in Palestine, to close the casino in Jericho, and to close the bars in Ramallah. And may Allah guide our political leaders here. We must return to the way of Salaf Al-Saleh. We must support Dawa'a to the Yahood, and we must support the Islamic resistant in Palestine, and Allah knows that.

Name
Abdur Raheem -
Profession
Question
Assalamu alaikum

I would like you to pinpoint the reason how and why you became Muslim.

Plus any tips or points to consider when giving da'wah to Jews?

Jazak Allah khair


Answer
The specific reason is Tawheed Roboobia and Uloohia, and every Muslim has to study this and the books of the Jews and compare. Go into the chat rooms, and do not speak, just analyze. Learn exactly how they think and to understand their mentality. And before all of this we ask Allah to open their hearts to Islam, and thats just one of the few ways.

By the way, there is a link for a free course, how to be a successful caller to Islam. You can find it on my web site: www.jewstoislam.com


Name
hamdy - Anguilla
Profession
Question
Salaam Aleikum.

Brother, what is your opinion of the man called Sharon?

Answer
My opinion is: He is no different than Neutri Karta, the "Zionist Jews." They are "Maghdoobi Alayhem" (recipients of Allah's Wrath), and in the Quran, they are "Yahood, and Bani Israel." This is the title that is given to them. Really, I was no different from Sharon, I was a Zionist. It is not important what we or I think about a person. Many Christians like Muslims, as do many Jews and many Hindus. But many dislike us. The question is, what does Allah (swt) say about these people, and do we have the right to be pleased with those whom Allah (swt)is not pleased with.


Name
Abul Qasas - United States
Profession
Question
Assalammu Alaikum,

Mashallah bro you're getting famous lol.

: D

Answer
Thank you very much, and may our inner good exceed our outer.


Name
Muzammil - Malaysia
Profession Engineer
Question
Assalamu'alaikum,

Based on your own experience of being on the 'other side of the fence', what would be the best way to bring peace to the Palestinians as well as Jews?

Or would the real peace be impossible to achieve?

Some people present ideas that the majority of religious Jews oppose the Zionists' harsh treatment of Palestinians? How true is the statement? I see on the TV the Israeli cabinet are also joined by religious Jews.

Thanks

Answer
First of all, I am not a politician. I will leave issues concerning politics in Palestine to the elected Palestinian officials. Personally, and religiously, I have no peace with the Jews. This is based on history, they've broken every convenant, they've killed prophets, and as far as I am concerened, I have no peace with them, nor that Islam has peace with them, except through the Jizya.

Again I repeat, I don't speak for the Palestinians, and I don't have knowledge to speak for the Muslims. This is a personal opinion, and Allah knows best.

We must try to save the Jews from the most evil of the Jews, which are the rabbi followers, the rabbinical Jews.



Name
Naveed - Canada
Profession
Question
Salaamz:

What was your opinion on so-called Jewish holocaust before Islam? What do you think of so-called Jewish holocaust now after being a Muslim?

Can you also tell me what is a general thinking of Jews in Israel and America regarding Palestine? Does the opinion of American and Canadian Jews differ from Jews in Israel over the illegality of the Israeli state and the occupation of Palestine?

Answer
I believe that the holocaust did take place before I was a Muslim. And today, I still believe that some Jews were killed, but I think the 6 million number is not correct. And we sympathize with them as we sympathize with all the Russians who were killed, the Greeks, the Polish, and all those who were killed.

I believe today the letter "S" in holocaust should be changed to a dollar sign "$". I believe that after instituting an Islamic or Palestinian state, we the Muslims and Palestinians in occupied Palestine should be recompensed for the suffering put on us by the Jewish state.

Many Jews have a different opinion, and really their opinions are meaningless to me, because unlike Hizb Al-Tahreer, who try to make Muslims think that America and the Jews control the world, the truth is Tawakkul is in the hand of Allah (swt) alone. There is an Ayah in the Qur'an "Any good is from Allah, and bad is from our own hands". The real issue is we have to fix ourselves if we want to free Palestine. And maybe before we do Jihad on the Yahood, perhaps we do Jihad on some Arabic music video channels.


Name
Dionisis (Ennes) -
Profession
Question
As-Salamu aleikum.

I a Greek converted Muslim also and I pray to Allah for your well being and happiness in this world and the after one. My question is: How do the people around you react I mean non-Muslim Israelites? And do they "persecute" you for being a muslim? I wish all the best to you and may Allah shower His Mercy to you and your family.

As-Salam Aleikum

Answer
First of all I don't live in a Jewish area; I live in a Palestinian Muslim area. Yes, there is discrimination. Yes, I have been beaten by Jewish soldiers. But not as bad as the people in the West Bank and Gaza.

I am sorry I don't have any great stories to tell about the suffering that I go through here, and I am sure that I am not suffering as much as brothers Muslims in Afganistan are suffering under the US implemented pupet, or as are Muslim brothers suffering in the American concentration camp in occupied Cuba.

Chat

As I sat there, my eyes carefully analyzing the screen, I could see the words clearly, but believing what I was seeing was simply impossible. Hatred is inescapable. In a world full of different races, religions, and beliefs, everyone is a target for ignorant, stereotypical ridicule. However, I was unaware that Internet chat rooms have become a stage for this form of racism. It is pathetic that people are forced to sit in front of their computers, a time in which most like to escape from the harsh realities of every day life, and be subjected to hatred at every push of a button.

Before I entered the Jewish chat room, I had no preconceptions as to what I would experience. It was with this in mind that I converted to the Jewish religion (for one hour) and entered the chat room with a completely open mind. When I first arrived, I was confronted with daily conversation - the type you would have with your next-door neighbor. One person asked, “Is anyone a Giants fan?” There was nothing about the chat that would indicate it being conducted by Jewish people. It was simply occupied by a group of people. The attitude of the room however, soon vanished with the entrance of a few narrow-minded wastes of space.

“The only good Jew is a dead one!” flashed boldly across the screen. At first, everyone in the room carried on the previous conversation, which had to do with daily jobs, and simply ignored the racist comment. “I am Hitler!” came up on the screen just as bold as the first message, but obviously carrying much more sentimental weight. The comment did not go ignored. Most stated the fact that it was probably written by a child, but it was obvious the message was taken to heart. Just following the aftermath of the last comment, a new person enters the room only to deliver the message, “I can sense the greed in here amongst the Jews.” In a matter of seconds, six people left the room. The ones who chose to stay only became witness to more hateful comments. “Anyone here have a big nose?” Some of those that remained chose to put the racists on ignore, but most continued to leave. At this point I was at a complete loss for words. I just sat back in amazement and watched the chat vanish into thin air.

In conclusion, people are people. Whether someone is black, white, Asian, gay, Jewish, or Catholic, we all are bonded by daily life and the feelings and emotions that characterize the human race. It was truly sad to see the chat room overcome by hatred, but it made me realize the ignorant ridicule certain people are faced with on a daily basis. This observation gave me the opportunity to sit inside someone else’s skin, even if just for a moment, and experience their experiences, feel their feelings, and witness the hate of others.

You want I should Cyber?

If you believe the ads (and God help you if you do), absolutely everyone's on AOL these days. Internet purists sneer at those poor nebbishes with AOL accounts (near as I can tell, the pecking order goes like this: free provider, .edu, aol.com, webtv.com -- you're only allowed to make fun of someone else's connection if you're actually paying for your connection and getting as little actual service as possible, which fits neatly into the ideals of geek macho. But I digress) but the sad truth is, it's big. According to friends with a great deal more money than I have, it's also the favored provider of the entertainment industry; after all, it's supposedly about the only net that provides really easy worldwide connectivity and when you're pulling down $12M per picture plus a personal hairdresser, you really don't need to have to worry about anything other than hitting the pretty buttons in the right order.

Still, AOL's clearly built its customer base out of people besides celebrities. The thing is durn huge, after all. Like it or not, geek purists, it does offer a fair bit of easily found (if not easily loaded) content, including some surprisingly effective communities, education centers and support groups. However, if anyone tells you that he's on AOL because of the vast intellectual resources there, he's probably lying. The useful stuff is nice, but the vast majority of AOL users hit the service for three reasons: stock quotes, email, and chat. (Porn takes too long to download through the AOL web browser, or so I've been told. Never looked at it myself. No, really. Honest.)

Chat on AOL is seemingly designed for those folks who never quite got the knack of TinyMUDding. Basically, all you do is click on a link to a room and there you go. Rooms generally hold 23 or so people at the max, with conversation appearing in text with a screen name attribution. Clever folks can change their chat font, color and size, while truly annoying ones make a habit of calling AOL's built-in sounds and annoying the living hell out of everyone else in the room. There are roughly umpty-jillion chat rooms on the service, broken down by topic. Most are fairly innocuous -- sports is a favorite topic, and there are innumerable ones devoted to books, geographic locations, auto repair, Britney Spears and the like -- but there's one particular subheading that sticks out like a red, throbbing thumb. That's Romance, and it's a doozy. On any given night, there are at a rough estimate 300+ Romance-themed chat rooms going, in theory broken down by special romantic interest. In actuality, that means that 75% of the rooms are supposedly devoted to lesbians of one stripe or another -- butch, femme, older, younger, heavier, lighter, fans of Michael Bolton, you name it -- though the sneaking suspicion here is that to populate this many chat rooms, either AOL's managed to get every lesbian on the planet hooked up and chatting or there are a lot of pathetic male pervs smarming around these things trying to look innocuous and drooling discreetly on their unshaven chins.

The rest of the chat rooms are dedicated to other topics, ranging from "Flirting" to various ethnic groups to "Married" (which never quite made sense to me -- if I were going to have an affair with someone who was married, I'd find a more discreet way to initiate the bloody thing than via AOL. Then again, that's just me). If the particular room you select is full, you get automatically bounced to a similar room with a sequential title, such as "Flirt's Nook 3" or "No Really We're All Lesbians In Here Despite The Fact That Our Online Profiles Say That We're All Named Ralph 6" though it's generally a good idea to be careful in the room you select -- any other AOL user seeking to locate you will be able to get the name of the chat room you're in, and if it's "Barely Legal Nymphomaniacs 2" you may have some interesting questions to answer.

Now, you may be wondering where all this is going. (Either that, or you've stopped reading, in which case I don't have to care about what you think anymore anyway.) The sad truth of the matter is that I have a confession to make. Alone in a fairly inhospitable state, 400 miles from my SO, bored to tears with the local cable offerings and stricken with insomnia, I broke down and, in the interest of doing research, wandered into the shark tank they call AOL Chat.

But, being a conscientious sort, I didn't just wander into any AOL chat room. I wasn't interested in the baseball chat (which consists mainly of fair-weather Yankees fans whose primary interest is in telling everyone else that other teams "fuckin' suck and that the Yankees RULE!" Incidentally, doing so is an AOL Terms of Service violation, but that's neither here nor there), nor was I after anything too educational. Instead, I muttered a silent Shema, mentally asked all pertinent parties for forgiveness, and leapt into possibly the most frightening place on all of AOL: Romance -- Jewish Singles.

Now, before anything else gets said, let me say that there are a surprising number of interesting, well-spoken, interesting folks lurking in that particular specie of chat room. In my time there, I found myself having challenging discussions on medical ethics, the publishing industry, and print vs. online journalism. There are a lot of people out there who, for one reason or another, do feel isolated from their culture, and figure that a place called "Jewish Singles" is a good place at least to get a vicarious shot of it. To those people, I am quite grateful, and I fully expect I'll stay in at least occasional contact over email with some of them, because good conversation is good conversation no matter where you find it. On the other hand, there are some real freaks out there, too, and it's the pathology of the scary ones that's worth commenting on.

To no one's surprise, the regular residents of Jewish Singles can be pigeonholed into a few neat categories, with relatively few stragglers. Indeed, most nights bring to mind echoes of Steve Martin's individualist pledge, with dozens of hairy-chested and beyarmulked guys thumping on their pecs and trying to prove they're individuals by aping every other guy in there. Thankfully, the monotony does get broken up on occasion. The classic types of attendee are:


THE CRUISERS
Surprisingly enough, a large percentage of the people who frequent the room are actually looking for romance, to one degree or another -- at least if your definition of romance is broad enough to include "typing naughty words at one another with one hand on the keyboard." The vast majority of these randomized Romeos are, shockingly enough, male; women are rare enough in the room to be able to sit there, pick and choose between suitors. However, there's a never-ending flow of would-be swains. Most arrive and perform the ritual self-statting, which generally reads "M/34/NYC" (though New York can be swapped out approximately 50% of the time for Los Angeles, or occasionally Boston. As near as I can tell, if AOL is a representative sample there are no unattached Jews anywhere outside those three cities. Fortunately, I'm happily attached, but clearly, were anything to go wrong with my relationship I'd have to choose between moving to Boston, LA or NY, or never getting any rabbinically appropriate nookie again.)

Sadly, most of the Cruisers are pathetically predictable. After announcing their age, gender (as if we couldn't guess) and location, they then proceed to ask if there are any "females" from their neck of the woods in the room. Why precisely they ask for "females" instead of "women" is one of the great mysteries of online romance; one would think they're actually alien zookeepers looking to stock their collections, or perhaps third year genetics student who struck out with the local representatives of the Wanda Tishler School of Beauty. They also eagerly greet anyone with a female-sounding screen name who enters the room, and they have a habit of being depressingly literal. One woman whose sarcastic screen name implied that she was less than attractive precisely to fend off this sort of idiot instead got buried in questions asking if she really was in fact ugly. Last time I checked, she'd taken to emailing out a scanned picture of a supermodel in answer to that sort of question, just to really blow the average goofball's mind. And yes, the Cruisers are very much in the market for pictures, or "pics" as they call them. Any woman who shows the slightest inclination toward conversation is immediately hounded for a pic; any woman who refuses to send one around is badgered, castigated and in many cases denigrated if she refuses to send along a GIF. Thankfully, when it gets to the last stage the rest of the room usually gets together to beat the offender over the head with a stick, though most sadly have no idea that they're committing harassment instead of being persistent, devoted and charming.

Generally, the Cruisers are sadly indiscriminatory. They'll take romance wherever they get it, and they're impossible to discourage. If the first 37 women into the chat room all tell a particular cruiser to go blow, he'll live in hope that the 38th will swoon for him. The brassiest simply announce their studliness and ask who might be interested in a little cyber horizontal rhumba; the shyer ones sometimes just cruise user profiles and send painfully blunt Instant Messages. Either way, the success rate looks to be appallingly low, as the same guys are there night after night after night.


THE NAZIS AND THE PREACHERS
While these two categories can be distinct, they generally behave in ways that are indistinguishable. The twits in the former generally come into the room and announce themselves with something along the line of "WASSUP MY JEWS????" Few have online profiles and most have screen names that end in 4-digit numbers, which indicates that the particular account being used was registered simply for the purpose of wandering around and harassing assorted folks. (Well, either that or that the idiot at the keyboard can't even figure out AOL's Profile menu, which tells you all you need to know about the staggering intellects we're dealing with here.)

Some don't even bother with that, and dive right into the baiting with comments like "HIEL HITLER," "NO PLACE FOR JEWS IN AMERIKKA" or, my favorite, "HILTER" repeated five or ten times. Hilter, it seems, was the guy no one knew about in the Third Reich, but somehow these bozos have uncovered his existence and feel determined to venerate him online in Jewish chat rooms. The other possibility is that they're really, really dumb, but who'd think that American neo-Nazis on AOL would be less than intellectual titans? Not I, certainly -- not in a thousand years. (Note: Correcting the spelling of your average AOL Naziwannabee generally gets you insulted as a know-it-all Jew by the idiot in question and draws laughs from the rest of the room. Try it. It's fun.)

On average, anywhere from two to five nerdoNazis will pop up in a Jewish Singles room over the course of an evening, often in clusters. They make crude sexual comments, mistype Hitler's name a lot, and occasionally make threats -- I've received about a dozen of the latter myself, including one that was specific enough to make me change my user profile to be a hell of a lot less specific about myself. At any given point, one member of the room will go toe to toe with the yahoos in an attempt to make them go away (or to win points with potential admirers); wiser users simply toggle on the "Ignore" function after sending AOL notice that, yes, there are more assholes annoying the paying customers. Once the Nazis stop getting reactions, they tend to wander off, no doubt to harass some other specialty chat room, but in the meantime they've left behind annoyance at best, and some real anger at worst.

How to Spot A Nazi In Jewish Singles

1. Most nerdoNazis have screen names that have four digit numbers at the end of them and no attached profiles. This means that the screen name in question is designed to be easily abandoned and not easily traceable (never mind the fact that AOL can, if it really wants to, just see whose name is on the credit card paying for the account)

2. A lot of nerdoNazis TEND TO TYPE IN ALL CAPITAL LETTERS. They tend to think this somehow makes the text appear louder, God alone knows why. Near as I can tell, silent text is silent text, and it's not like typing in capitals increases the font size any.

3. NerdoNazis, if attempting to camouflage their intents, generally try to strike up conversations with lines like "Where are all the hot Jewish females at?" Now, I've been a Nice Jewish Boy for nearly 30 years, and I have to say, Jewish women (not "females") are only hot when they're visiting elderly relatives in South Florida. Then, they do something called "perspiring," "shvitzing" or "glowing" -- not "online chatting." Jewish women can be and frequently are attractive, stunning, beautiful, gorgeous, sexy, alluring, charming, seductive and any number of other adjectives designed to demonstrate how attractive they are, but they are not now and never will be "hot" -- at least, not in the minds of Nice Jewish Boys like me.

4. NerdoNazis are depressingly literal. If the word "black" is in your screen name, they will assume that you are in fact African-American and begin using racial epithets as well. (The whole idea of "goth culture" seems to have escaped them, big surprise.)

Similar in approach are the Preachers, who view the Jewish chat rooms as fertile ground for new converts. Apparently no one informed these bozos that the reason people go to Jewish chat rooms is to be with other Jews, but hey, it's a free country, and there's certainly no mohel's proof of purchase check at the door to the chat room. However, once the Preachers set up shop inside, all hell generally does tend to break loose. The Nazis, as vile as they are, can generally be laughed at because their attempts at antiSemitism are so pathetic. The Preachers, on the other hand, never, ever let it go, and their condescension can empty a room of its intended users in seconds flat. Now, I may be in the minority here, but on a certain level I think it's kind of sweet that someone else cares enough about my soul to try to save it. However, I'd really prefer it if religious proselytizers behaved more like long distance company reps. I'd love to be able to say to an online Jesus freak "Thank you, but I'm very happy with the service I'm getting from my current religion, and have no interest in changing," have them wish me a nice day and then hang up and stop bothering me. Unfortunately, the bulk of the Preachers who wander into Jewish Singles have the mentality of a starving rat terrier. They're not fishermen for souls, they're spiritual Ahabs, careening pell-mell toward Moby (circumcised) Dick (one presumes in this analogy that the giant whale has laid off of the giant squid in its diet, as calamari ain't kosher) in a ruinous quest that has no chance of succeeding, but every chance of pissing a whole lot of people off.

The approach that the Preachers use is curious at best; one assumes it's copied from a real-life model somewhere because on its own, it really doesn't make a lot of sense. Generally, a Preacher announces that he's there to save everyone in the room (bright ones send in plants beforehand to say "Let's listen to what he has to say!" before revealing their true colors), gets huffy when he doesn't exactly meet a receptive audience, and then spends the rest of the night alternately insulting and cozening his targets. Telling someone that he's a damned, hateful soul who rejects God's love, and then asking him to reject a central tenet of his personality and culture works about as well as you might think it does, and repetitions of the cycle generally don't help much.

Occasionally Bible quotations get dragged in to support the Preacher's argument, with various chunks of Isaiah being particular favorites. To no one's surprise, the quotes in question are generally vague or taken way the hell out of context, and also seem to have been fed to the Preachers to repeat by rote. Quoting anything that wasn't what a Preacher was directly prepared to discuss (Go on, challenge a proselytizer on something from the Book of Habbakuk. Five bucks says they'll have no idea what you're talking about) tends to result in stammers, long silences, and more insults. Preachers generally last longer than nerdoNazis do, and it often takes an AOL online host to haul them out. One suspects that there's some sort of organized effort to land these people in the Jewish chat rooms continually, as all of them sound so similar and till the same soil. However, if there's a less likely batch of converts than geeky, horny, insomniac Jews, I don't know what it is, and I'm all for whatever bunch of nimrods funds the Preachers continuing to waste their money beating their empty heads against a figurative brick wall.


MORE JEW THAN YOU
Now, it goes without saying that there are different degrees of observance among Jews in America, and it's no surprise that you get a fairly wide cross-section in the Jewish Singles room. Myself, I tend toward the lighter side of the occasion, but I think it's great that there are folks holding conversations in Hebrew in there and otherwise discussing aspects of the religion and culture that, for whatever reason, I don't partake of. However, there are also those geniuses who feel compelled (maybe it's a mating ritual. I dunno) to let everyone else in the room know how utterly concerned they are with Jewish IssuesTM, more so than anyone else there, and how anyone who doesn't take Jewish IssuesTM as seriously as they do is threatening the survival of the Jewish people as a whole. Declarations like these are often followed up by announcements of personal suffering that the announcer has gone through because he's Jewish, and a general denunciation of any non-Jews in the room. (Yeah, we let them in. Most are pretty nice and are genuinely curious about what the heck Judaism is. Call me crazy, but isn't that sort of tolerance and curiosity exactly what American freedom of religion is all about? Sheesh.)

Now, rest assured that I take Jewish issues (with a small "I") very seriously, and I have nothing but respect for those who take serious action to make this country and world a better, safer place to be Jewish in. On the other hand, I find it impossible to respect anyone who takes the totality of Jewish struggle in America and boils it down to "I'm the boss of this chat room."

(I'll put it another way: Look, pal, if you're really that into Jewish IssuesTM, go out and do something that puts your money where your mouth is. You'll actually be accomplishing something and odds are, you'll meet more than the 23 Jews a given chat room can hold. If, on the other hand, you're only interested in pontificating about your shtick, shaddup, get a lollipop and move on, because odds are that everyone in the room's gone through something similar to what you have. We've just got other things to talk about on occasion.)

Still, these jokers continue to show up and shake their tiny fists at the world. Unfortunately for them, in a chat room letting loose your barbaric yawp across the rooftops of the world generally reads like this: yawp. The rest of us, on the other hand, are quite grateful for that fact.


THE SNIPERS
This, in the end, is the category that I fell into. Snipers generally sit back, absent themselves from the conversation, and take potshots at people making particular asses of themselves in the room. The majority of Snipers I talked to already were involved in stable relationships, and their reasons for coming to the chat room could be boiled down to "watching the circus." Most spend their energy in private conversation that's struck up after a particularly witty public evisceration of some poor fool or other. What the Snipers don't realize, or at least try to ignore, is the fact that they're still getting their social jollies out of hanging around an AOL chat room, too. In the land of the blind, no one can see you're wearing cool shades.


IN CONCLUSION
Of course, this rough assessment leaves out the porn merchants, the sad and desperate souls who seize on any conversation as intent of a lifelong commitment, and any number of other beasties prowling the virtual corridors, but here's the heart of the Jewish Singles chat experience. As I said, there are surprises to be found, and who knows? There just might be couples actually getting together off of this thing, and more power to them. Lord knows that the roster of regulars does have fairly steady turnover, and hopefully that means that someone, somewhere (most likely NYC or LA) is hooking up. But the chat room is eternal, and though the cast changes, the play remains, ever the dreary same.

Got a pic?

Summer in the city

Didja ever wonder what all the husbands do while the wifeys are up at bungalows ? Well, now you can find out. Go to Craig's List for New York area and search the personals for "frum" or "frum married". Some samples :


Married, 44 attractive, professional looking for a discreet NSA encounter with a nice jewish girl in the Monticello, Liberty area.
Bored??? Husband back in the city hangin at the tittie bars while you and the kids are stuck in the bungalo colony with all the yentas.
Want to get away for the day?? Need some excitement in your life? Email me, lets chat first and see if we can hook up later for a non frum discreet encounter. this is in or around Monticello

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To the frum blonde in tybergs grocery thursday night - m4w - 29
Date: 2006-07-30, 1:53PM EDT
Yes we made eye contact a few times... you in your beautful blonde sheitel... me tall dark... you happened to look for 'stuff' in the same section as me we made eye contact like ten times... hubby next to you.... so we both kept quiet.... I felt the vibs.... lol
I hope you see this.... yeh sweet dreams on my part... this is in or around Swan Lake
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BAIS YAKOV EDUCATED/FRUM GIRLS ONLY - 36
Date: 2006-07-31, 9:21AM EDT
* here's the situation:I am lonely,horny,sexy,Bais Yakov educated.I am not compatable with my husband sexually or intellectually.I am interested in a nice frum woman who would like to explore but its extremely discreet.Please send a picture and in return i'll send you mine. THANX

Bored Housewife...MJF... However you classify it... - w4m - 29

Date: 2006-08-02, 1:08PM EDT
I've been reading these ads for a while now, and I always wonder if they work. And if they do, what I would do. Well, its come to this.... I'm bored by everything in my life. Don't worry, I'm not looking to get a divorce, but i am looking for an orthodox/frum married man to spend some time with, and to treat me like a woman. Sex is definitely on the agenda, but probably not on the first date. I'm very pretty, 5'6'', brown eyes, black hair (which I usually cover), 115 lbs, nice tush. Take me to Starbucks and pique my interest.Write me a paragraph about who you are and what you have in mind and PLEASE send a picture. Discretion a must.


I understand that people are human and stuff like this will happen. I'm just thinking that maybe Rabbis should stop obsessing over the issurim involved in going to baseball games and start looking at the bigger picture. Maybe my hemline is not the only thing keeping the Messiah from announcing his arrival.

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

Teaneck’s first frum mayor

Elie Katz, 31, is also Teaneck's youngest ever mayor

The mayor presides over council meetings and appoints members to Teaneck’s library and planning boards.

In a phone conversation with The Jewish Standard on Monday, Katz said he would focus on bringing revenue to Teaneck to alleviate tax burdens placed on residents.

"We’re going to be aggressive about looking around for smart development — not overdevelopment," he said.

For instance, Katz wants businesses with heavy sewage usage to pay higher taxes so that residential sewage taxes can be lowered. The township currently pays $3 million a year for the removal of sewage, he said.

Although Katz is not the first Jewish mayor of Teaneck, he said that he is the town’s first Orthodox mayor. But the lifelong resident hopes that people will look beyond his religion and focus on his past as a volunteer and longtime member of the town’s business community, and on his future actions.

"I’m hopeful that as an active member of the community, that people recognize that I have a tremendous amount of experience that should supercede peoples’ judgment of my religious beliefs," he said.

At 16, Katz joined Teaneck’s volunteer fire department. At 21 he was a member of the Teaneck Police crime stoppers. He is chair of the town’s youth advisory board and a member of the Teaneck Municipal Alliance Against Substance Abuse.

His political career began at age 23 when he ran for an empty council seat that had opened up in midterm. He won the seat, becoming the youngest councilman in Teaneck history. From 2000-2002, he held the position of deputy mayor.

My interest is in the residents of Teaneck and the town I love," he said, noting that he has no aspirations for higher political office. "The only reason I decided to run again and be the mayor is I felt I could have some input and make a difference in a time when there’s a lot of difficulty in the town."

Adam Gussen, one of the four council members elected in May, said that he is amazed that Katz was able to capture 60 percent of the vote in the election. "Elie had a tremendous mandate from the voters," he said. "His previous nine years on the council is a testament to how far and wide he’s respected in the community."

In the race of 17 candidates, Katz won re-election and three other newcomers — including Gussen — were elected to the council.

Gussen is positive that Katz is the right choice for the job of mayor. "I expect great things from him," Gussen said. "I think Elie Katz is going to be a tremendous mayor for Teaneck."

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