Frum Chat?

[IMG ] Not so long ago I made a post about chat and how people acted there. What a chillul hashem. Are these guys for real??? Now I admit, I've chatted with guys, and liked chatting with them too. It can get to a point where you have to say, OK, this has either gone too far, or you can continue. I find myself turning back and saying there are some things that I would rather not know about until the time is right. I mean, we have the Kallah lessons for a reason. Before I started blogging and chatting, I was hardly even curious, in all honesty about boys. Why would I be? But over the past year, my mind has opened up more than I can even imagine myself. OK. This post wasn't supposed to be about that. I'm home sick, with a pretty bad cold, and I got bored. Chatted for a few with friends, read blogs, made comments. Talked on the phone a little but since my ears hurt I didn't really feel like the phone. I wandered into jewish chat and I came across a guy who I had chatted with in the past, but since I don't keep archives I couldn't remember what he had said to me before. I'm going to post the conversation and just say....duh him: hey me: hi him: how was the chag me: nice b"h me: and by you? him: nice to him: any new guys me: new guys? him: freinds? me: maybe you're mistaking me for someone else. Sorry I dont have guys him: ok him: hows the money situation me: huh? me: meaning??? him: r u dating yet? me: Ill start when the summer finishes him: ull need to dress up a little me: I dont really dress up. him: wen u date u need to me: ok..so? nu? what's the point here? him: do u know of anygirls who would like to fool around me: ...........? me: where did THAT come from??? him: ifu find one ill pay u him: ok me: Why would I take money to make a girl do such a thing? him: jus for the shiduch me: but you're married. how can you call this a shidduch? him: so wat him: im sure u know some1 me: I know lots and lots of girls. And since you're from 13th ave, probably girls you see everyday. but not uh... him: but i cant ask em him: weras u can me: but to be honest....if I went to any girl and said hey, I know a guy whos married but looking for some fun with a frum girl, they're gonna look at me like I've gone meshiga. him: yes but in a coversation it could come out him: like guys make me hot me: you think girls just sit around and talk about guys making us hot? him: and u say i have a freind...................\ him: sometimes im sure him: uve had such conversations me: lol you really don't know girls at all him: ok him: never' him: do they talk me: a girl might say, so and so is cute, but we sure never sit around and talk about so and so is so hot I wonder what him and his wife do...my gosh me: I feel bad for your wife him: can i see u on cam me: I don't have a cam him: y do u feel bad for my wife me: Because she deserves a man to be faithful to her like she is to you. him: i havent done anythong me: so looking for young girls online to "fool around with" is nothing? me: Since it's taking you forever to answer, I guess you have nothing to say. So, he didn't answer me again, but FECHHHHHHHHHHH. This time the only thing I edited from this conversation was the names. Everything else is as is.